I saw

When I was in Vancouver, on the SkyTrain, I saw a guy who looked like he might be really ugly. His clothes were a mess from what I saw outta the corner of my eye, and he might be homeless I thought. Well, bad look. I looked again and saw that he was normal. Except his face looked really emaciated. And it was him that the alcohol breath was coming from. But holy shit. He should've been so beautiful. He was one of the best-looking guys I had seen the whole trip I was there. Or at least he should've been. The alcohol and the drugs killed that. Why is that? Why the fuck?

I identify with him. When I look in the mirror after I have one of those sleepless, depressed nights after I get rejected or something, that's me. The drug addict. Addicted to the lack-of-sleep high soothing my sorrows. Refusing all other cures. Knowing that nobody would ever look at me if they knew what kind of sorry state I fall into when my emotions get destroyed.

And yet I told myself (jubilant that day. I was in Vancouver after all!!) that I shouldn't look back at him - encourage him to get over his problems, rather than looking at him as though maybe I cared. For him.

It doesn't make sense.